Normalize composite tunnel display values before rendering peer and
debug output so IPv6 tunnel types no longer append `6` to the port.
- Preserve prefixes like `txt-` while converting tunnel schemes to
their IPv6 form.
- Recover malformed values such as `txt-tcp://...:110106` into
`txt-tcp6://...:11010`.
- Reuse the normalized remote address display in CLI debug output.
- add lazy_p2p so nodes only start background P2P for peers that actually have recent business traffic
- add need_p2p so specific peers can still request eager background P2P even when other nodes enable lazy mode
- cover the new behavior with focused connector/peer-manager tests plus three-node integration tests that verify relay-to-direct route transition
This allows HTTP redirect servers to provide network-specific node
lists based on the client's network identity. Updated unit tests
to verify the header is correctly sent.
Luna Yao