fix: resolve slow exit and reduce test timeouts (#1970)

- Explicitly shutdown tokio runtime on launcher cleanup to fix slow exit
- Add timeout to tunnel connector in tests to prevent hanging
- Reduce test wait durations from 5s to 100ms for faster test execution
- Bump num-bigint-dig from 0.8.4 to 0.8.6

Cargo.lock

@@ -5238,11 +5238,10 @@ dependencies = [
 
 [[package]]
 name = "num-bigint-dig"
-version = "0.8.4"
+version = "0.8.6"
 source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
-checksum = "dc84195820f291c7697304f3cbdadd1cb7199c0efc917ff5eafd71225c136151"
+checksum = "e661dda6640fad38e827a6d4a310ff4763082116fe217f279885c97f511bb0b7"
 dependencies = [
- "byteorder",
  "lazy_static",
  "libm",
  "num-integer",