fix peer establish direct conn with subnet proxy to one of local interface (#1782)

* fix peer establish direct conn with subnet proxy to one of local interface

* fix peer mgr ref loop

Cargo.lock

@@ -809,14 +809,14 @@ dependencies = [
 
 [[package]]
 name = "bindgen"
-version = "0.71.1"
+version = "0.72.1"
 source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
-checksum = "5f58bf3d7db68cfbac37cfc485a8d711e87e064c3d0fe0435b92f7a407f9d6b3"
+checksum = "993776b509cfb49c750f11b8f07a46fa23e0a1386ffc01fb1e7d343efc387895"
 dependencies = [
  "bitflags 2.8.0",
  "cexpr",
  "clang-sys",
- "itertools 0.12.1",
+ "itertools 0.10.5",
  "proc-macro2",
  "quote",
  "regex",
@@ -2172,7 +2172,7 @@ dependencies = [
  "dbus",
  "defguard_wireguard_rs",
  "derive_builder",
- "easytier-rpc-build 0.1.0 (registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index)",
+ "easytier-rpc-build",
  "encoding",
  "flume 0.12.0",
  "futures",
@@ -2339,16 +2339,6 @@ dependencies = [
  "prost-build",
 ]
 
-[[package]]
-name = "easytier-rpc-build"
-version = "0.1.0"
-source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
-checksum = "24829168c28f6a448f57d18116c255dcbd2b8c25e76dbc60f6cd16d68ad2cf07"
-dependencies = [
- "heck 0.5.0",
- "prost-build",
-]
-
 [[package]]
 name = "easytier-uptime"
 version = "0.1.0"
@@ -4322,11 +4312,11 @@ dependencies = [
 [[package]]
 name = "kcp-sys"
 version = "0.1.0"
-source = "git+https://github.com/EasyTier/kcp-sys?rev=71eff18c573a4a71bf99c7fabc6a8b9f211c84c1#71eff18c573a4a71bf99c7fabc6a8b9f211c84c1"
+source = "git+https://github.com/EasyTier/kcp-sys?rev=94964794caaed5d388463137da59b97499619e5f#94964794caaed5d388463137da59b97499619e5f"
 dependencies = [
  "anyhow",
  "auto_impl",
- "bindgen 0.71.1",
+ "bindgen 0.72.1",
  "bitflags 2.8.0",
  "bytes",
  "cc",